I don't think anyone grows out of crushes. And they're are pefectly naturally. I see crushes as 'someone I could be friends with' + 'chemistry'. And you're never going stop that happening. But you choose not to act on it, and if you want to, you might choose to become friends and hope the other bit dies down. Having decided to be monogamous, I think it's about making a commitment to someone and sticking with it. I've found someone i love and want to be with forever, so even when I meet people that "might have been", I choose not to respond. I don't believe anyone can really find that One True Love, but what we can do is find is someone who we choose to build a life with and who becomes our one true love.
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Date: 2005-02-03 07:58 pm (UTC)Having decided to be monogamous, I think it's about making a commitment to someone and sticking with it. I've found someone i love and want to be with forever, so even when I meet people that "might have been", I choose not to respond. I don't believe anyone can really find that One True Love, but what we can do is find is someone who we choose to build a life with and who becomes our one true love.